Traditional anniversary gifts

by CountryFriedMama on October 21, 2010

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Our house is overflowing with dress-up clothes and accessories.  My old purses spill out of a basket in the playroom.  Gowns with hoopskirts hang in Miss D.’s closet next to her school outfits, and The Belle has a stash of plastic sunglasses tucked away in a bin on her bookcase.

Despite this bounty, there’s a particular, out-of-sight accessory Miss D. covets.  It’s wrapped in tissue paper and nestled in a storage box on a high shelf in the hall closet.  I’ve told her she can have it one day, after she finishes college and maybe grad school and has completed many adventures and met someone who makes her laugh and think, someone who inspires her to take a great risk on a social institution that fails as much it succeeds.  It’s the hairpiece that held my veil on the day I married her daddy, and she thinks I’m pretty mean not to share it with her.

Maybe I will today.

The Internet tells me that, by rights, Country-Fried Daddy and I should be exchanging gifts made of tin or aluminum on this day.  It’s our 10th anniversary, which I’m sure we once imagined would be a grand affair.  TEN YEARS.  That’s the big time.  Surely, a decade of marriage warrants a significant observation.  Tin?  Aluminum?  On the day we married, we would more likely have guessed instead: Paris!  Diamonds!

I think I understand the tin/aluminum gift prescription better today than I might have back then.  These everyday materials reflect what our life together is about, 10 years into our marriage.

Our days are not particularly flashy.

We break up fights over crayons and baby dolls.  We cajole our reluctant pre-schooler into attending weekly soccer practice and try to heed our toddler’s demands to do everything herself.  We watch “Word Girl” on PBS and  listen to the “Annie” soundtrack in the car.  We wipe faces after dinner and tushies after naptime.

It’s a wonderful life.  Just not a let’s-go-to-Europe-while-wearing-precious-gems  kind of life.

On this day 10 years ago, I wore a tiara in my hair, and it was a beautiful accessory.  I’ll take it out and look at it today, and maybe let Miss D. wear it for a bit around the house to compliment her knee socks and plastic jewelry.

And for CFD’s gift, perhaps I will sculpt a shiny replica of the Eiffel Tower out of aluminum foil, my personal twist on the traditional recognition for 10 happy years.

I took these photos in response to this week’s You Capture assignment at I Should Be Folding Laundry.  You might be shocked to know that the prompt was “orange,” not “rambling stories about accessories and anniversaries.”

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An Authentic Life
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October 21, 2010 at 9:50 am

btw…i love your site and dig your style!

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Carrie October 21, 2010 at 10:24 am

Happy Anniversary! We celebrated 10 years this past June and laughed over our BLT sandwiches about what we thought we would be doing to celebrate the big 1-0. :-) And those socks – I would wear them. :-)

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Tara October 21, 2010 at 10:27 am

The first photo is too cute! I love her little tights.

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Zak October 21, 2010 at 10:52 am

Happy Anniversary, I want those socks!

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bubbe October 21, 2010 at 10:59 am

I am remembering today , wisking you down a staircase and into the Bentley (not ours) and you saying…”here we go, I can’t believe it”! :)

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laura October 21, 2010 at 11:12 am

Oh, I love the sock picture. I love everything about it. :)

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Jen Higgins October 21, 2010 at 11:17 am

I love how you composed that first shot!

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Alyssa October 21, 2010 at 12:50 pm

I love fun socks :)

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AidansMama October 21, 2010 at 1:56 pm

Happy Anniversary!

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Rachel @ Grasping for Objectivity
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October 21, 2010 at 3:36 pm

Happy anniversary!!!

Our ten year is coming up in March, when I will be three months post-partum, still nursing, and please-oh-please-oh-please (maybe just barely) sleeping through the night. We’ve already been trying to come to terms with the fact that 10 years will NOT, in fact, hold a magical trip of glory and wonder. Thanks for the reminder that it doesn’t have to!!

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Manda October 21, 2010 at 8:38 pm

Happy Anniversary! I hope that you had a great day! I love the photo of the pumpkin knee highs – awesome!

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Rebecca at Toothwhale
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October 21, 2010 at 10:42 pm

Happy (belated) 10th anniversary! I agree — 10 is the big time. And on a side note, I need to get ahold of an “Annie” soundtrack. Memories!

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Mel October 22, 2010 at 7:27 am

Happy 10th anniversary to you both. Enjoy this special day.

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Stillmary October 22, 2010 at 9:07 am

I like both your photos but the first one is really endearing with those darling socks!

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Tiffany @ No Ordinary Homestead
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October 22, 2010 at 12:37 pm

My husband and I have also been together for 10 years (as of March!) Happy anniversary!! Here’s to 100 wonderful more :)

Love your shots. The socks are so awesome…but I love the second one too :)

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Bec October 23, 2010 at 2:34 pm

I’m loving those socks! Too cute.

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Teresa October 23, 2010 at 8:42 pm

I just love that first picture!

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Renegades October 24, 2010 at 10:50 am

I love the tights. Reminds me of when my Jazzy was smaller. LOL and wore what I wanted. :)

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